Tag: Wellington
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Talking With Alice On The Couches
Alice came over for dinner Monday night. I have a table and chairs in my lounge but I never eat dinner on them; I sit on the couch like everyone else. Alice sat too. We ate zucchini pasta and talked about my work and her midwifery exams and about the weather and about the election…
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Band Tension
[Chiara and her bandmate Jez are working on their new song at their friend Rachelâs flat. From behind a closed door some indications of band tension begin to emanateâŚ] Chiara: But it goes: the verse about the whiskers, then the pre-chorus with the abalone, then the Pacific Ocean pre-chorus, then the chorus. Jez: What Iâm…
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It’s Been Busy
Not much to report, reallyâeverythingâs been very busy but itâs the kind of busy where even though youâre doing lots of stuff there isnât really a way to write about it. I mean, what are you supposed to write? You have a friend in town and there are parties and dinners and cups of hot…
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Daylight Savings
Itâs Daylight Savings now, light later and later. My sun guilt is very firmly entrenched but I sit on one of the 80-percent-life-size couches anyway, up against the large lounge window, looking at the outside drying racks in the back yard, the chittering birds and peeling paint and golden sun of Mt. Victoria. Meant to…
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Creative Collaboration
Since Iâve got back from my trip itâs been all go re: the video for the the song. Did I mention? (Um, yes, I believe Iâve mentioned I wrote a song). My bandmate has done several videos for his own fantastic self so I knew it could be doneâI certainly wasnât going to let something…
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Wellyversary
Last night I celebrated my five years in Wellington with a gig at the limiest-green dive bar in Wellington, where the owner happens to be a friend of a friend and where I see shows all the time. Iâve been planning this for months, referring to it as my Wellyversary: two friendsâ bands played, some…
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Five Years
I donât even remember anything thatâs happened since the last time I wrote, man. I am never home and when I am home all I want to do is put my laundry in or make sure I have enough Greek yogurt for tomorrowâs lunch and to wash my face and brush my teeth and go…
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Weakness
I started taking a circusâspecifically, adagioâclass a couple of months ago at the instigation of my friend Rachel, who is a certifiable circus freak and who is on mission to recruit everyone she knows so that she can have a Friend Circus. She drives a hard bargain; after telling me to do it for months…
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Happy Place
We went for a walk along Oriental Parade after Chrisâ waffle party this afternoon. Itâs been such a warm winterâtoday felt much more like November than July. The sun was shining and I was only wearing two shirts and a hoodie and there was no wind. We went to what Rachel calls her happy place,…
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Expiry: Indefinite
Yesterday morning I walked down to Immigration half an hour before they opened and stood in the queue for a while before taking a number and taking a seat, my application with its two laughably unflattering passport-size photos in hand. A nice man called me over to his desk, I paid him a hundred and…
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That Was My Tuesday
I bought this super cute pink-and-red-and-gray-and-black cameo-pattern skirt the other day at Recycle Boutique for like sixteen dollars and then on Saturday, after a strange series of events, I bought these super-awesome knee-high boots, which has sort of been this everlasting quest of mine for longer than I care to contemplate. Anyway over the past…
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Solitary Sunday
7:15 Rainrainrainwindwindwindwind HeyIdonâtfeelsoawesomerightnowrainrainraininrainwindwindwindKABOOMIdonâtfeelsohot 7:45 Hmm, I see that, according to Facebook, everyone else in Wellington has noticed the bad weather as well. Fascinating. I feel gross. 8:15 Urrrrrrrgggggghhhhhh. Arrrrrrgggggggghhhhh. Bleuuuuurrrrrggggghhhh. 9:30 Bed, I love you bed. I love you forever, bed. I will never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever leave you, bed. 10:00…
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Leaving
Itâs not all the time now, the way it was when I was first in Wellington, a leaving do every weekend. Now it will be quiet for months and then there will be a big sudden push of Facebook invites to last-night-in-Wellington drinks. Since March, I guess, a lot of friends have been leaving, one…
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I Meant To Take Photos
I meant to take photos of everything I did over this long weekendâin New Zealand we get Good Friday and then the following Monday off, for Easter, and if this was Australia Iâd be getting tomorrow off too, for ANZAC Dayâand to caption them hilariously and all of that, but it just never happened. Itâs…
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Autumn Face
Trudge through the drizzle to the foot of a hill where they filmed Middle Earth ten years ago, to the pile of concrete blocks that houses your beloved flat. Look up at the mist rising off the reconstituted native forest. Look down at the full gutters and the empty mailbox. Throw your shopping bags on…
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Atomic
I was in the mood to go out on Saturday night. Iâve been very busy socially lately but itâs hasnât been the going out kind of social, if that makes sense; like I go to a lot of dinners and shows and house parties and things like thatâsometimes even events–and I have people over to…
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She Knows
This time last week my friend Calin and her (and now my as well) awesome friend Susan were staying with me here in my little flat, as part of a stop on this awesome Antipodean horse-riding tour they were on together. Wellington put on quite a show for them, being all sunny and lovely and…
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Long Light Days
How I–snap! click! pop!âwent, with what feels like no transition whatsoever, from staying home every night, not even going to yoga, to double-booking every weekend and having to schedule nights off from social stuff, is anyoneâs guess, but all of a sudden all my conversations are about how I can make it to this one…
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Soft Grey
Itâs cool and rainy and a little grey right now as I write this, but spring grey, soft grey; not the intractable closed-down iron of the winter thatâs finally dripped and dragged to an end. Earlier it was short-sleeves-and-sandals weather, and I didnât even need a hoodie as I got the seasonâs first cheap red…
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This, Here, Now
Yesterday I didnât have yoga after work and I also didnât have any food in the house. A quick perusal of the produce section at New World indicated that broccoli was expensive but that asparagus was (kind of) cheap because weâre finally getting into spring, and then in a flash I recalled that I had…
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Just A Nice Weekend
Friday night I walked home after work and waited anxiously for my new stove to be delivered. All the appliances in this flat are hilarious for their own various reasons, but the stove was not funny at all because a) all its various temperature markings had been worn away so you just sort of had…
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We’re Not Talking About It
We put Theresa on the plane to Melbourne yesterdayâtwo carloads of friends. Sheâs doing a working holiday visa there for a year, after two years in Wellington, and I donât think any of her friends have completely absorbed that sheâs gone yet; we joked about getting tickets to Auckland and continuing the party up there…
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Turning Out To Be A Big Deal
The stove doesnât workâIâve tried out all the burners and they get sort of lukewarm for a while, enough to almost boil water for pasta, but then they just shut off randomly. One of the windows sticks. Thereâs a washer from 1982 but no dryer. The bedroom closet door draaaaags across the carpet. The curtains…
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Wait Till You Get All Your Stuff In
The good thing about having a very immediate-yet-mostly-dealable crisis is that it focuses all your nervous energy into a very specific direction: Do This Thing, Now. Make It Happen. Make It Work. The night sweats and the upset stomach and the inability to concentrate all of a sudden have a reason and a purpose: I…
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Crying In August
I did so much crying in August. I did lots of different of kinds: the kind where you canât get out of bed and have to remember to drink water at hourly intervals to replenish your vital fluids; the kind where you start sobbing at work; the kind where you weep silently on the bus…
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Boxes Of Books
When I was in Seattle in the Northern Hemisphere summer of 2008, I got rid of something like three hundred books which my buddies at the Blue House in Ballard had been storing for me in three identical IKEA bookcases (I had another one upstairs in the cloud room, also full to bursting) along with…
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Four Year Anniversary
Itâs four years exactly today since I first came to Wellington, coming from Napier on the Intercity Bus, waiting to meet Deirdre at the station with my big green backpack. That was so long ago. For my one-year anniversary in 2007 I was in Australia, not even paying attention, and for my two year I…
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There Is No Requirement To Still Your Mind
The yoga teacher seems to want to touch the American a lot in class tonight. She doesnât correct or realign her, she just lays her hands on lightly, gently, softly: spread-out fingers in down dog, shoulders in Warrior II, the small of the back in childâs pose. She can tell, thinks the American, lowering down…
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Sunday Night
You told yourself you were going to scale back from social stuff this weekend but youâve been out every night all the same. Brunch and lunch and coffees and dinners, lots of friends, lots of talking. Lots of texting and running around. You are home only to sleep and to throw your clothes in the…
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My Imaginary Boyfriend
Saturday morning, Chiara and her flatties lay around the lounge discussing their respective Friday nights they wait for a load of firewood to arrive, which they will have to lug up four flights of muddy slippery steps if they want to stay even slightly warm for the next eighteen months of Wellingtonâs winter. Outside, it…
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Squeeze
Things go quick or they donât go at all, these days. Iâm never at home anymore, thereâs never enough time to do anything like grocery shopping or laundry or reading or writing blog posts or anything, because either Iâve got dinner with one friend or dinner with another friend or easy-ish yoga or really hard…
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Pompeii To Paris
I met the beautiful and talented Leimomi last year at the Pride and Prejudice and Zombies ball, which she brilliantly organized and at which I discovered a predilection for wearing top hats and frock coats. We became Facebook friends, as you do, and saw each other at parties and whatnot, always very enjoyably; we may…
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St. Swithin’s Day
Thinking back now I suppose you were just stating your views What was it all for For the weather or the battle of Agincourt And the times that we all hoped would last Like a train they have gone by so fast And though we stood together at the edge of the platform We were…
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Winter’s Here
I am sitting our lounge in front of the fire; the flatties have mentioned something about itâs being âtoo warmâ in here but I have hadâwearing yoga pants, two long-sleeved shirts, a pink fur-lined hoodie, and pink fur-lined slipper bootsâto disabuse them of the notion that there can ever be such a thing as âtoo…
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Back From The Weekend
Towel-dry your hair and put on a singlet, thick socks, a shirt and two jumpers, shivering in your unheated room. Wrap your neck in your biggest scarf and pull your hat down over your ears, pull on your new mittens and be late for the bus, head down into the rain. Look at the different…
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Pancakes
At yum cha on a rainy Saturday afternoon⌠CHIARA:âŚyeah, soâsorry, can I have one of those sticky rice things?âwe have this rule in the house, now. You know how weâre all lonely spinsters, all three of us? Well, we decided that if anyone ever brings someone home, she has to cook pancakes the next morning…
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In The Middle
She missed the twilight while she was at the store, wandering around the aisles sort of dazed, trying to remember if they are out of milk at the house, if she needs more ravioli or feta cheese. The winterâs held off the last couple of weeksâsheâs been trying to spin out wearing her cute new…
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Pendulum
The last big Italian lunch I went to was for my own birthday; so I was really looking forward to the one this afternoon. May has been surprisingly still and calm and warm and every morning when Iâve hopped out the door and run down the 38923892 stairs to the street Iâve looked out the…
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At The Ceilidh
Last night I went to a ceilidh (pronounced ‘cay-lee’), a Scottish country dance, with many delightful buddies. I had never been to one before and wasnât quite sure what to expect. I mean, I knew there would be kilts, but that was about it. It was at a little social hall in Newtown and they…
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Popular
Yesterday I had the day off because I was at a hui in Te Kuiti all weekend; one of my flatmates and I took the opportunity to stack this winterâs firewood and then we went to see my friend Tom speak at Pecha Kucha. Tomorrow night I am meeting Giulia for coffee and then going…
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Only If It’s Not Fun
Between getting new flatmates and getting sick and having a birthday and all sorts of other things, I havenât been to my tribal bellydance class for almost a month. I was determined to make it this week, the fact that I got home at 3:00 on Sunday morning, the very same Sunday morning that would…
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35 = Great
My birthday weekend was so good that I had one of the several cakes people made for me for breakfast today just because I felt like it. Iâm sort of sniffly and snuffly and had to skip yoga tonight so I could come straight home and make soup for dinner, but I am still basking…
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Sick In Bed
Sick in bed for a day and a half, in a way I havenât been since the Bush Administration. Tired and sore and achey and shaky, sweating through the sheets, sweating through my purple octopus shirt, dazed and dehydrated, staring at nothing. The last time I was this sick I was in my motherâs house…
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Carrying Me
The bay heaves and surges, flexes its muscles but never breaks into waves; the clouds filter the eveningâs light whitely, greyly, into the fading hills. I look out the window at the smudged harbour, tired from yoga, tired from my week. Looking forward to dinner and bickies and bed. Mist gauzes over the open mouth…
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Switching Up
Right after we all got back from Christmas and New Yearâs my very lovely flattie gave us some simultaneously awesome and awful news: she was moving out. Awesome: sheâs moving in with her fantastic boyfriend! Awful: sheâs leaving us! I had a couple days to wrap my mind around that, thinking about the hassle of…
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Sevens Weekend 2010
Yesterday was pretty exciting because not only was it Waitangi Day and good old Sevens, it was also like the one day of summer that we have in Wellington per year, and when I say that I mean that thatâs what they were actually saying on the news, like, âSummer to fall on weekend this…
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Watching And Listening
Thursday night I went to see Neko Case at the good old San Francisco Bath House, scene of many fun times over the past couple of years. Itâs a pretty small place but Iâve seen some very good shows there–Kristen Hersh in 2007 springs to mind, for example, plus lots of local stuff. I was…
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Summer Concert
You have been going to the summer garden concerts since you first arrived in this city: as you walk down from the cable car along the path to the soundshell you think about the night you first thought you might like to stay for longer than a year. So many memories, now, as you search…
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This Year’s Summer
Itâs been pretty awful weather since I got back from Golden Bay, as in itâs currently 54 degrees (Fahrenheit, that’s 12 for everyone else) outside, in the middle of whatâs supposed to be summer, and itâs raining sideways and the wind is whipping the tree branches against my window in such a manner that suggests…
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Time To Go
Last night we all went to the Wellington International Ukulele show at San Francisco Bathhouse and got home ever so slightly late for a Sunday night, after much singing along to âAfricaâ and âSweet Child OâMineâ (works surprisingly well as a happy cheery folky song) and everyoneâs favorite âHeartacheâ. This morning when I got into…
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The Realization Of Desire
I leave in a couple of days for my summer holidays (and of course itâs still winter weather in Wellington, of course it is) and have been busy with many parties and much wrapping-things-up with work and much trying to see everyone before I leave for the usual lunches and coffees and dinners. Iâve been…
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Trying To Dissolve
There are six or seven things Iâve been thinking about lately and meaning to write about here (Pride and Prejudice, my heterosexual life partners, the end of crappy olâ 2009, how my hair lady gave me this weird winged mullet with which I am having a hard time coming to terms) but thereâs no time,…
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Art’s Hopeful Sickroom
Friday evening I was invited to aperitivo, like after-work drinks for Italians, at the studio of someone I know through my friend Giulia and also from Facebook. I wasnât quite sure what this was all about, exactly: what kind of studio was it? Who would be there? What sort of a snack situation were we…
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Home Alone On Sunday Evening
The sunâs going down now, slowly, softly, and part of me thinks I should go downstairs and chop some kindling and make a springtime fire, but really what Iâll probably do is shiver slightly as the clouds rush overhead and drink another cup of tea in my yoga pants and oversize Auahi Kore shirt I…
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Thursday Night In Spring
Of course in the Northern Hemisphere Guy Fawkes Day would be cold and dark and autumnal: brief glares on a freezing November evening, actual bonfires, something warming in a hip flask perhaps. In your city, itâs cold and dark too, when you finally decide that oh fine, itâs just once a year, and suit up…
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At The Pride And Prejudice And Zombies Ball
My first response, when invited to a Pride And Prejudice And Zombies ball for Halloween was to sigh heavily and to dream of a beautiful white Regency dress my friend Anna made me around 2002, I think. I have no idea where this dress is: I know I put it in storage three years ago,…
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Another Good Wellington Weekend
I really dithered around about what to wear Friday night; I havenât been out dancing in ages and it was cold and rainy and I donât have any good shoes, and all things considered the short blue dress and the knee-high boots with tights was a mistake. It was a moderately cute outfitâin fact when…
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Matiu/Somes Island
Weâre at an intriguing meteorological stage, right now in Wellington: itâs still sort of officially winter in that it can be cold at night and one wants at least two blankets on the bed, but the birds have been singing and the flowers have been blooming and everyone is waking up a little bit from…
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Day By Day
Monday I made some lentil soup with carrots, onions, a whole thing of tomato paste and some leftover frozen corn when I got home from work. I would have liked to put in some celery but celery was SEVEN DOLLARS at Moore Wilson and I was too tired and cold to go over to New…
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Sleeping In
Wake up, finally, because the morning lightâwell, the mid morning lightâ got in through the curtains. At first you thought your phone was going off on your bedside table but really it was the birds outside in the trees, singing, singing, making you believe the long cold wet winter is almost over and that one…
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Hospitality
I had some girls from my work over for dinner last night, which was a pretty big deal for me on several levels: Monday night after a long and hectic weekend wherein no laundry was done whatsoever; not sure what to cook; people that Iâm still getting to know and whom I will have to…
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Returned To Sender
I canât help wondering: what happens to the love, the kind that never gets to the people it was so earnestly meant for? Sometimes thereâs a reason and sometimes there isnât: they werenât paying attention or they didnât understand what would be required, or they just plain werenât interested, they just plain didnât want it,…
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Sunny Weekend
I donât know about you, but I had a really nice weekend. It was full of pretty people and cute dresses and an interesting documentary and journal-writing at Fidelâs and lazy pajama-based mornings and a hubristic party and good talks and yummy hot chocolates and delightful cupcakes and a walk on the beach at Lyall…
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Hibernating
Two pairs of socks, in the mornings; a singlet top, merino jersey, fuzzy-collar zip-up sweater and a coat. Scarf and a very cute hat that always gets me compliments, and sometimes the orange chenille gloves I think I got at the Greenlake PCC nine billion years ago. Tights and boots. Three duvets on the bed…
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Skills
Community transmission of contagious disease being what it is, Iâve been back working on Operation Swine this last week and a half, and I am so totally OVER IT, man Most people at work have been on this thing for like eight weeks now and everyoneâs tired and everyoneâs tense and everyone has the little…
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Operation Swine
Yesterday at work I was innocently lingering over my lunch when a new co-worker of mine motioned me over. âUm, what are you doing right now?â she asked. âUhâŚtotally important work,is what Iâm doing,â I fake eye-rolled at her, finishing off the last of my third cup of tea. She’s new, this co-worker, but she…
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Expertise
I ought to be getting ready to run down the road and get on a bus to go to a little party in town; instead I am sitting on my couch with a terrible headache and a queasy tummy, miserably sipping Lady Grey tea and trying to enjoy the last smidge of sunset before I…
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The American Thing, Again
Last night I got an email from New Zealand Immigration saying that theyâve done the first stage of my residency application and needed some extra information about my job to continue on. This was pretty exciting because a) the information they wanted was really easy to get and I had it in the mail this…
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Body And Mind
Even though I started my new job last week, this past one was the first full-forty-hour week Iâve worked since
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Anything Other Than Temporary
Iâm pretty glad I didnât update last night after moving my stuff (which at this point in time consists of two stuffed-to-the-brim bags that barely made it into checked luggage and some very pretty bedding I got at the half-off sale at Briscoeâs last week) from my dear friend Aliceâs house in Mt. Victoria to…
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Learning To Drive
Although I had a couple of opportunities to do so, I actually never drove on the right side of the car and/or left side of the road the first time I was over here, almost two years. I bummed rides or walked or bussed or trained everywhere and that actually worked out very well for…
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Anti-Climactic
Today I woke up late because I was up talking with Alice until three in the morning, drank some tea, had lunch at the Italian cafĂŠ with my friend Julie, submitted my New Zealand residency application, went to Farmerâs for moisturizer, and stopped at New World to pick up ginger nuts on the way back…
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Not The Same But Similar
âItâs not going to be the same,â my sweet friend Giulia wrote to me today in chat, âbut it will be similar.â Ten days before I leave Miami, sixteen days before I get on the plane to Auckland, and youâd think Iâd be consumed by details, youâd think Iâd be all about my lists and…